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"I wouldn't go up to a stranger," he explained, "You just look weird." And with those few words, the crossroads we are at with dating suddenly appeared before me. It has produced over 10 billion matches and been responsible for everything to disaster dates to weddings to one-night stands all around the world.In four short years it has completed the journey from novelty app to the new dating norm - but I wonder, what are we losing from the old methods of 'matching' with people in the process?My best friend James confirmed what I suspect many men now feel."You don't want to be that creep in the bar," he explained, "Tinder lessens that risk of instant rejection, that's why it is successful. But since when did women want a man delivered in a safety net?Even if she has a boyfriend or says no, you walk away 10 feet taller for three seconds because you took a risk." Another told me: "You never regret the asking, but you always regret it when someone catches your eye and you don't."In his novel , F.Scott Fitzgerald described the first encounter between two characters destined for love: "Their eyes met and they stared at each other, alone in space." Are we really ready to give that feeling up for good?
"It doesn't work for normal looking guys," one scoffed.
If we see someone we like across a bar, we're more likely to unlock our phone and start swiping to see if they crop up on Bumble or Happn than we are to go over and talk to them.
Admittedly the bar pick up has long had a bad rep as a y move, where women hang around in slinky cocktail dresses waiting to either be claimed by a man or throw a martini in their face.
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